The Phoenix

The Phoenix Ottawa is an adult lifestyle and erotic social club based in Ottawa, Ontario. It’s designed as a safe, respectful, and inclusive space where consenting adults can explore sensuality and sexuality in a private setting.

Key features:

  • Private Membership: You must apply and be approved for membership. They offer options for singles and couples, often with rules about gender balance.

  • Themed Spaces: The venue includes themed rooms, social lounges, and two dungeon areas for BDSM/kink play.

  • Events: They host regular parties and themed events, with strict consent and etiquette policies.

    Regular Events:

    • Kink Night: Every Friday, 8 PM – 1 AM

    • Misbehave Monday: Every Monday, 7 PM – 11 PM

    • Non-Heteronormative Night (NHN): For individuals identifying as queer

    • Couples Only and Single Ladies Night: Open to couples and single women; single men may attend if accompanying a couple

    • Bi-Sexual Play Party: Encourages same-gender play but not mandatory.

Discretion & Safety: IDs are required, but confidentiality and respectful behavior are core to their code of conduct.

  • Practice safe and consensual interactions; “No” means no.

  • Maintain good personal hygiene.

  • Respect all members, regardless of gender identity or sexuality.

You can learn more or apply for membership via their site: thephoenixottawa.com

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